On Those Abandonment Issues

    When Jay-Z said, “We’re all screwed ‘cause we never had the tools,” I felt that. As we grow older and into, both, romantic and platonic relationships we see the effects of our upbringing.  We see the compassion and love in our hearts but we also see the wounds, perhaps more strikingly, and one of the most common ones that develops is fear of abandonment.

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Ways to Actually Practice Gratitude

    Though the holidays are marketed as the “most wonderful time of the year”, they can be a very sad time for some or just a very busy and ungrounded season for others.  When we practice gratitude repeatedly in lieu of feeling frantic, angry, depressed, drained, etc, we don’t allow those emotions to exist within us.

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I Manifested, Now What?

     In last week's post, I went over 5 steps to manifesting and the difference between practicality and energetic work in terms of creating what we want in our lives.  But what about once we have it?  Often the fun part is making the magic but the struggle lies in keeping it.

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5 Steps to Getting What You Want

    I’ve gotten the impression that when most people hear about manifestation, they think it’s something only mystics do.  I know you’ve heard the whole “We’re creators of our experience” bit - it’s true.  We all have an inherent power and it’s constantly at play, shaping our realities.

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How to Use Oracle Cards

    If you watch my Instagram stories, you’ve probably noticed that I often post card spreads.  Every time I post one, people ask me what the fuck I’m doing and if I’m some kind of witch (LOL) but I’m just playing with oracle and affirmation cards.

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How to Cut Cords

     Etheric or energetic cords are attachments rooted in fear that we have to certain people, situations and sometimes even objects.  Doreen Virtue describes them, "...like hoses, with energy directed back and forth between two people."  No matter how much inner work we know we've done, these cords make us continuously feel the shadow of this attachment on our backs.

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The Comparison Trap

    It's happened more than most of us would like to admit - someone else gets the gig we thought was meant for us.  Someone else receives attention from the person we're into.  Someone else is "better looking" and just appears to have a fuller life than us, so we find ourselves months deep into their Instagram feeds and caught up in the comparison trap.

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The Reason You Feel Stuck

     A few months ago I saw my psychic for one of my biannual readings.  I’m always very excited to see her because she offers scary accurate revelations and guidance when I’m not entirely clear on what direction to take. This time, however, the first thing she told me when I walked into her space was, “Your energy just made me feel tired”. Bitch, what?

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